What girls say when making love: Hot topics and data analysis on the Internet in the past 10 days
Recently, the discussion about women’s language expression in intimate relationships has become one of the hot topics on social platforms. This article combines the hot topic data of the entire network in the past 10 days and uses structured analysis to reveal the trends and opinions behind this phenomenon.
1. Statistics of hot topics (last 10 days)

| Platform | Topic keywords | amount of discussion | heat peak |
|---|---|---|---|
| #couple communication skills# | 128,000 | 2023-11-05 | |
| little red book | "What to say when making love" | 62,000 | 2023-11-08 |
| Zhihu | intimacy language arts | 35,000 | 2023-11-03 |
| Douyin | #gendercommunication# | 1.86 billion plays | 2023-11-10 |
2. Analysis of women’s expression preferences
According to the collection of 500+ high-like comments, women’s verbal expressions in intimate moments mainly exhibit the following characteristics:
| expression type | Proportion | Typical examples |
|---|---|---|
| Emotional feedback type | 42% | "I like you like this..." |
| demand-led | 28% | "Can you go slower?" |
| intimate address type | 18% | "Baby..." |
| silent/other | 12% | - |
3. Excerpts from expert opinions
1.Psychology expert Professor Lipointed out: "A woman's verbal expression in intimate moments is often a barometer of relationship satisfaction. It is recommended that partners establish a tacit understanding of expression through daily communication."
2.Gender relationship consultant Teacher WangEmphasis: "Study found that 68% of women are more inclined to use positive and encouraging expressions, which can effectively improve the quality of intimacy."
4. Content hotly discussed by netizens
| opinion type | support rate | Representative message |
|---|---|---|
| natural expression | 54% | "Just follow your feelings, no need to say anything deliberately" |
| communication skills | 33% | "It's important to discuss each other's preferences in advance" |
| Silence is golden | 13% | "Actions speak louder than words" |
5. Comparison of cultural differences
By comparing data from Chinese and foreign social platforms, we found that Eastern women are more likely to express their needs implicitly (72%), while Western women express their needs directly (58%) at a higher rate. This difference is closely related to traditional cultural education.
6. Health Advice
1. Establish a safe environment for expression and respect individual differences
2. Pay attention to the importance of non-verbal communication
3. Communicate regularly about relationship quality
4. Seek professional guidance when necessary
The statistical period of the data in this article: November 1-10, 2023. Data sources include mainstream social platforms such as Weibo, Zhihu, Xiaohongshu, and Douyin. All data has been desensitized and only reflects overall trends and does not involve personal privacy.
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